Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Blog Challenge Day 20:Someone I can see myself marrying

ever since i saw this on the challenge, it has been giving me a little anxiety. posts about music, or pics and such are easy cheese. this one took some pondering. since my last relationship endeavor ended recently, the furthest along i am with anyone i like is one date. so i really have a hard time picking a particular person to see myself with in the future at all. so instead, i'll share a few traits of what i am looking for. i believe that it is good to have at least a few things in mind for what a potential mate should be like, so that i won't get lost in the myriad. the most important thing i am looking for is someone who makes me want to be better. not that i would need to feel inferior or lacking, but the kind of hopeful desire to improve, and the belief that i can. she should be courageous. everyone has fears, but courage defies fear, and lives on purpose. she shouldn't be willing to settle with mediocrity in life.

she needs to be a disciple of christ.

and it wouldn't hurt if she looked like audrey hepburn.


  1. I like the saying: "A woman's heart should be so lost in God that a man needs to seek Him in order to find her." It came to mind while reading your post. Don't worry, I don't make it very far in relationships either, but dating is only meant to work out once. Where is this blog challenge coming from? I want to do it.

  2. look at my july post of the gauntlet has been thrown down, it has the whole challenge